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Best Men by Sidney Karger
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really liked it
bookshelves: borrowbox, lgbt, library-borrows, romance, chuckles-galore, mm

3.5 Stars

I liked it.

This debut had the sort of relevant, heartfelt, oftentimes snarky voice that I really relate to and enjoy in queer fiction of this kind.

Best Men is one of those stories that is told in a witty and entertaining way, but manages to make you think and feel on a deeper level than the initial laughs would suggest.

I really liked gay MC Max Moody, with his dry wit and cynical nature, and his endless inability to truly be the “gay best friend” icon his lifelong gal pal Paige wants/needs him to be in the socially chaotic lead-up to her big wedding.

I’ve seen a lot of reviewers not take kindly to Max, who always seems to be deemed the party pooper because he likes quiet and simple and loathes flashy and pretentious, but God, did I relate to this guy. His every single reaction to BFF Paige’s outlandish wedding events, one after another, and the pressure he felt to perform a certain role in her life, gave me sympathy anxiety and PTSD flashbacks to times in my life I was at the mercy of my own bridezilla.

My biggest issue with this entire story was Paige herself. I couldn’t stand her from the very first conversation to the last. And, tragically, she was heavily present in the entire book, because, obviously, the whole premise centred around Max’s involvement in her wedding. If you read this book and thought, "she’s just like my best friend!"... then it might be time to consider getting a new best friend (like I did with mine).

On the bright side, I enjoyed the writing and the pop culture references, and the very millennial nature of Max’s entire being (It’s me, hi! I’m the problem, it’s me!). I also liked that there was a romance element, between Max and a guy named Chasten—Paige’s soon-to-be new brother in-law—but I appreciated that it wasn’t solely about their relationship. This was Max’s story of growth and potential, first and foremost, but it was nice that he found a great guy along the way. *winning*

I definitely enjoyed the story enough that I decided to round up my rating. Plus, I’ve already added Karger’s next release to my over-flowing TBR, which speaks volumes to my satisfaction of this debut.

If you’re a fan of Steven Rowley or TJ Klune, you should consider checking this one out. <3
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Reading Progress

June 2, 2023 – Shelved
June 2, 2023 – Shelved as: to-read
August 22, 2023 – Started Reading
September 25, 2023 – Shelved as: borrowbox
September 25, 2023 – Shelved as: lgbt
September 25, 2023 – Shelved as: library-borrows
September 25, 2023 – Shelved as: romance
September 25, 2023 – Shelved as: chuckles-galore
September 26, 2023 – Finished Reading
October 3, 2023 – Shelved as: mm

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Kati *☆・゚ [a bit distracted atm] ugh, "Best Man" is such a GOOD trope but sadly it rarely lives up to my expectations. I love snarky and witty banter a lot too. Sorry it couldn't be more for you even tho you enjoyed.


message 2: by Zuzu (new)

Zuzu Wow, I'm impressed you finished the book!


message 3: by Meags (last edited Oct 03, 2023 03:16PM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Meags Kati *☆・゚ wrote: "ugh, "Best Man" is such a GOOD trope but sadly it rarely lives up to my expectations. I love..."

The Best Man trope is probably not one I’d be rushing to read, to be honest, Kati, but I think I’d read an article on this book back when it first came out (in May) and it intrigued me enough to borrow from my library.


message 4: by Meags (last edited Oct 03, 2023 03:18PM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Meags Zuzu wrote: "Wow, I'm impressed you finished the book!"

I liked it, Zuzu!!! I didn’t mean for my review to sound like I didn’t!?!


message 5: by Amina (new)

Amina Excellent review, Meags! 🤍 I was considering this, but I didn't quite feel the appeal to it. Your review might have convinced me to maybe reconsider.


message 6: by Meags (last edited Oct 04, 2023 02:55AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Meags Amina wrote: "Excellent review, Meags! 🤍 I was considering this, but I didn't quite feel the appeal to it..."

Thanks, Amina. It won’t be for everyone, as the mixed reviews can attest, but I was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed reading it. It’s always a positive sign when I finish a debut and find I’m feeling open and eager to see what the author’s next book is like. ❤️


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