An important book, not only in the understanding of repressed and recovered memories, but in the understanding that the emotions and fear experienced An important book, not only in the understanding of repressed and recovered memories, but in the understanding that the emotions and fear experienced when one finds oneself faced with flashes of memories long buried are natural. It is also important in that it lets one know that they are not alone.
That having been said, I personally wish there had been more focus on how to deal with the emotions and the fears one faces when confronted with repressed memories. It touches on that a bit, but I personally needing something more constructive and proactive. That is why as vital as I think this book is, it is important to remember that this book is a supplement to proper psychological care during these tough times. Don't let this book be the only help you afford yourself.
As for other negative reviewers claiming that no cases of recovered memories have been documented, this is simply not true and I would venture that many of the negative reviews here are from member of the so-called "false memory syndrome foundation," an organization you should research fully to understand. The Recovered Memory Project out of Brown University maintains a database of over 100 verified cases of recovered memories, and the list continues to grow. The so-called "false-memory syndrome" is as dubious as the Foundation itself.
The last caveat I must add is that if you are involved in a lawsuit over the abuse you suffered, or might be in the future, it is very important that you speak to your attorney before reading this book (or any book on childhood sexual abuse and/or repressed memories) as many attorneys representing perpetrators may attempt to use your familiarity with the book to cast doubt upon your claims....more