Gigi Engle

Writer

Gigi Engle is a certified sex and relationship psychotherapist. Gigi is the author All The F*cking MIstakes. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmo, Glamour, Men's Health, and Refinery29. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter at @GigiEngle.

By Gigi Engle

Is sexting right away on a dating app a red flag?

How to be sex positive while maintaining your boundaries.

07/12/2024

A white woman with blonde hair lies in bed at night scrolling on her phone.

A white woman with blonde hair lies in bed at night scrolling on her phone.

What is gooning?

Breaking down the hypnotic "goon state" of the masturbating nation.

03/09/2024

eyes superimposed on hundreds of porn tabs

eyes superimposed on hundreds of porn tabs

What is premature ejaculation?

Finishing too soon during sex can be very distressing, but it is definitely treatable.

10/05/2023

Doctor talking to patient in hospital.

Doctor talking to patient in hospital.

What is 'veto power' in non-monogamous relationships and why is it so problematic?

Having the power to 'veto' your partner’s other partners can have some seriously messy outcomes.

10/03/2023

A heart-shaped ornament and a clip with several felt colored hearts

A heart-shaped ornament and a clip with several felt colored hearts

What is the 'One-Penis Policy' in consensual non-monogamy and is it problematic?

If you’re only willing to allow your partner to explore with people who don’t have penises, you probably need to check yourself.

09/28/2023

Illustration of a woman kissing a male partner on the left, and the same woman kissing a female partner on the right.

Illustration of a woman kissing a male partner on the left, and the same woman kissing a female partner on the right.

A beginner’s guide to age play

"Age play is when consenting adults engage with each other in a role play and/or power exchange dynamic, where one or more of them takes on the persona of a different age group."

08/17/2023

A close-up view of messy bed with comforter and pillows

A close-up view of messy bed with comforter and pillows

What happens to the mind and body when you don't have sex?

A horny question for the ages.

08/10/2023

A man and woman lying in bed facing opposite directions.

A man and woman lying in bed facing opposite directions.

How growing up in purity culture impacts sex

The effects of shame-based narratives can have a big impact on our ability to experience pleasure fully.

08/03/2023

The concept of chastity. Woman is holding lock on gray background.

The concept of chastity. Woman is holding lock on gray background.

Everything you need to know about erectile dysfunction

1 in 3 male-bodied people will experience erectile difficulties at some point in their lives.

06/22/2023

A phallic-looking cactus that's gone flaccid and limp.

A phallic-looking cactus that's gone flaccid and limp.

Why tickling turns some people on

Yes, tickle fetishes are a very real thing.

06/08/2023

A close up of a feather tickler used for erotic role play, on a pale pink background.

A close up of a feather tickler used for erotic role play, on a pale pink background.

A beginner’s guide to balloon play during sex

We’re really popping off.

05/25/2023

Close-up of lots of different coloured balloons

Close-up of lots of different coloured balloons

5 steps to making a masturbation routine

A masturbation routine is as important as your gym routine for overall well-being.

05/18/2023

An outstretched arm holds a banana on a pink background

An outstretched arm holds a banana on a pink background

Can you masturbate too much?

Is there any truth to ‘good things in moderation’ when it comes to wanking?

05/15/2023

Illustration of a woman wearing a bra and lying on a bed, with a pink vibrator beside her on her left, her open laptop on her right hand side.

Illustration of a woman wearing a bra and lying on a bed, with a pink vibrator beside her on her left, her open laptop on her right hand side.

A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM

If you like disobeying daddy, this one’s for you.

04/20/2023

A set of leather erotic toys for BDSM, including a whip, gag and leather blindfold.

A set of leather erotic toys for BDSM, including a whip, gag and leather blindfold.

What is a spit kink? Here's everything you need to know.

People are horny as hell for spit.

04/13/2023

A close up of two people's lips touching.

A close up of two people's lips touching.

A beginner's guide to impact play

For when chains and whips excite you.

04/06/2023

Leather whip in hand over yellow background

Leather whip in hand over yellow background

Why we enjoy being humiliated during sex

If you enjoy being spit on or told how filthy you are in the bedroom, you’re in good company.

03/30/2023

Kieran Culkin as Roman Roy. Culkin is sitting in a dimly lit room on a sofa with neon lighting behind him.

Kieran Culkin as Roman Roy. Culkin is sitting in a dimly lit room on a sofa with neon lighting behind him.

How to last longer in bed

Tips and tricks for your best sexual experience.

03/23/2023

Heart shaped clock on pink background.

Heart shaped clock on pink background.

A beginner's guide to sensation play

You can still get kinky, even if pain isn’t your thing.

03/09/2023

Close-up of man and woman hugging

Close-up of man and woman hugging

A guide to having nipple orgasms

Yes, they’re real and you can have them.

02/09/2023

A hand clutches a bed sheet.

A hand clutches a bed sheet.

A beginner's guide to understanding Dom/sub dynamics

Want to try kink but don't know where to start?

02/02/2023

A set of BDSM toys including a whip, gag and leather blindfold.

A set of BDSM toys including a whip, gag and leather blindfold.

How to use stainless steel sex toys

They may look intimidating, but these toys are where it’s at.

12/29/2022

Illustration of a sex toy

Illustration of a sex toy

How to have great sex standing up

While having sex standing up can be more challenging than fun, there are ways to make it amazing.

12/22/2022

A couple seen standing up and kissing in front of a window

A couple seen standing up and kissing in front of a window

How to have the best shower sex

Getting steamy in the shower can really make a splash.

12/08/2022

Water streaming from shower head against backdrop of teal blue tiles.

Water streaming from shower head against backdrop of teal blue tiles.

How to give a blowjob like a pro

They don’t call it a job for nothin’.

10/27/2022

Comic-book style illustration showing how-to steps for giving blowjobs, from staying hydrated, to teasing nipples and doing research before you begin.

Comic-book style illustration showing how-to steps for giving blowjobs, from staying hydrated, to teasing nipples and doing research before you begin.

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