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The Graveyard Book by Neil Gaiman
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it was amazing
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Read 2 times. Last read February 21, 2012 to February 22, 2012.

It takes a graveyard to raise a child. This is a summary of this magical, sweet and imaginative story for children, which (in a good tradition of the Brothers Grimm) started with a triple homicide.
“There was a hand in the darkness, and it held a knife.”
Neil Gaiman does not waste time with unicorns and princesses and butterflies which are often considered acceptable for children. He kicks off his book with the brutal murders of a child's entire family, written in a chilling tone that made me quickly turn all the lights on in my bedroom.

Nobody Owens (named so because "he looks like nobody but himself"), or simply Bod, is the sole survivor of the aforementioned triple homicide, who is, in The Jungle Book style, promptly adopted by a sweet ghost couple in the graveyard inhabited by an afterlife community. He even gets a vampire as his guardian and mentor - “There were people you could hug, and then there was Silas.”



Given the Privilege of the Graveyard and taught how to Fade into the background, Bod spends his entire childhood playing among graves, learning his letters from the gravestones, running into trouble with some ghouls, being tutored by a werewolf with a taste for Eastern European food, dancing with Death, and making friends with the ghost of a young witch burned at stake. He does crave human company though, and in addition to becoming an "imaginary friend" of a little girl also does a brief stint as a non-so-ordinary student at a school. All this while the evil that tried to murder him in the first place is still searching for him.

Neil Gaiman has a real knack for the imaginative combination of sweet and creepy elements together with the bittersweet ending, creating a unique and unforgettable story which appeals both to children and adults. Told via a succession of interludes from Bod's unusual life, the story could have been overly sugary or overly morbid, but Gaiman easily avoids either extreme. This story has just the right mix of sweetness, whimsy, sadness, suspense, and adventures to keep the reader captivated throughout.
Bod said, 'I want to see life. I want to hold it in my hands. I want to leave a footprint on the sand of a desert island. I want to play football with people. I want,' he said, and then he paused and he thought. 'I want everything.'
Seeing the world depicted through the eyes of a quiet graveyard-raised but very human boy colors the story with almost Bradbury-esque feeling of nostalgia for the fleeting magic of childhood. We see the inevitable process of growing up, finding one's self, and letting go of the comforts of childhood home written poignantly and sweetly, and yet without overkill.

“You're alive, Bod. That means you have infinite potential. You can do anything, make anything, dream anything. If you can change the world, the world will change. Potential. Once you're dead, it's gone. Over. You've made what you've made, dreamed your dream, written your name. You may be buried here, you may even walk. But that potential is finished.”
Bod is a great character for a children's story. He is smart and resourceful, quiet and observant, loyal and brave, somewhat mischievous, and ultimately very life-like. His demeanor reminds me of my awesome younger brother, actually. Watching him grow up from a sweet child into what seems to be an actual good adult is a pleasure.
“You're brave. You are the bravest person I know, and you are my friend. I don't care if you are imaginary.”
This story, even though wonderfully complete, still reads almost like a tease at times. Gaiman gives us a delightful and lyrical glimpse into the world which I would love to get to know better. He creates such rich captivating characters that even after the book is over I am left longing for more. I would love to read a whole another book dedicated to Silas or Miss Lupescu or Lizzy the witch. (Mr. Gaiman, if you ever run out of other book ideas... just sayin'!)
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5 stars and a well-earned spot on my "for my future (hypothetical) daughter" reading shelf.
"There was a smile dancing on his lips, although it was a wary smile, for the world is a bigger place than a little graveyard on a hill; and there would be dangers in it and mysteries, new friends to make, old friends to rediscover, mistakes to be made and many paths to be walked before he would, finally, return to the graveyard or ride with the Lady on the broad back of her great grey stallion.
But between now and then, there was Life; and Bod walked into it with his eyes and his heart wide open."
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Quotes Nataliya Liked

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“People want to forget the impossible. It makes their world safer.”
Neil Gaiman, The Graveyard Book

Neil Gaiman
“You're always you, and that don't change, and you're always changing, and there's nothing you can do about it.”
Neil Gaiman, The Graveyard Book


Reading Progress

Finished Reading
December 31, 2011 – Shelved
February 21, 2012 – Started Reading
February 22, 2012 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Henry (new)

Henry Avila Great review,Dr.


Nandakishore Mridula Wonderful review, Nataliya.


Nataliya Thanks. You can call me 'Doc' ;)


Nataliya Nandakishore wrote: "Wonderful review, Nataliya."

Thanks :) It's easy to write reviews about book that I really loved.


message 5: by Kay (new)

Kay You and I may as well share to-read lists. Another great review of a book that I hope to read asap!


Jason Koivu Fantastic bit of reviewage there, Nataliya!


Trudi I love this one and you've made me want to read it again! :)


Algernon (Darth Anyan) if you liked this, maybe you should give a try to Peter S Beagle - A Fine and Private Place


Pixelina Somehow my to-read list are now filled with Nataliya-books. Thanks for another great review :-D


message 10: by Sesana (new)

Sesana Lovely review of a lovely book. This is one of my favorite books.


Kaethe Oh, well done. You captured the feel of the book beautifully. And, yes, that opening creeped me out, too.


Nataliya Kaethe wrote: "Oh, well done. You captured the feel of the book beautifully. And, yes, that opening creeped me out, too."

Thanks!

I originally started listening to this one on Gaiman's website, and his voice and the manner of reading completely terrified me. I had to get the non-audio copy first, and listen to him later once I already knew the story :)


Nataliya Jeanette wrote: "Somehow my to-read list are now filled with Nataliya-books. Thanks for another great review :-D"

Somehow now I'm imagining scores of books with a giant picture of me on the cover. *shudder*
But seriously - thanks :)


message 14: by s.penkevich (new)

s.penkevich Awesome review. I really need to read this!


message 15: by Missy (new)

Missy LaRae Sounds really good. I'll have to download it and read it to my boys.


Kaethe Missy: consider the Gaiman reading. He's really good.


Nataliya To second what Kaethe said - Gaiman's reading of this book is great, if you guys want to give it a shot.


Shovelmonkey1 I've just pulled my first ever Gaiman off the bookshelf... it's American Gods... I'm weighing it in my hand and wondering "to read or not to read?"


message 19: by Missy (new)

Missy LaRae Kaethe wrote: "Missy: consider the Gaiman reading. He's really good."

I'll have to try it. Thanks!


message 20: by Kay (new)

Kay Shovelmonkey1 wrote: "I've just pulled my first ever Gaiman off the bookshelf... it's American Gods... I'm weighing it in my hand and wondering "to read or not to read?""

American Gods is, in my opinion, one of Gaiman's best works. I envy you reading it for the first time. :)


Shovelmonkey1 High praise indeed- Gaiman has always had a mixed reception on goodreads and I've seen many lovers and many haters. I might give it a go then...


message 22: by Kay (new)

Kay Shovelmonkey1 wrote: "High praise indeed- Gaiman has always had a mixed reception on goodreads and I've seen many lovers and many haters. I might give it a go then..."

Yes, I noticed this. People either love him or hate him, and very few are in between. His style is peculiar and doesn't appeal to everyone. But if you're into books with dark and quirky meandering narratives, I think you'll really enjoy American Gods.


Kaethe American Gods is my least favorite, because it's the least amusing, and I still think it's brilliant.


Shovelmonkey1 I liked his collaboration with Pratchett (Good Omens) so where, for you ladies, does that stand on the sliding scale of Gaiman quality?


Kaethe Oh, that's the best novel written in English. Beyond brilliant. Two great minds, making me cackle with glee at the cast of characters.

Wait, will that great, great expectations that can never be met? On second thought: It's okay.


Nicole Shovelmonkey1 wrote: "I've just pulled my first ever Gaiman off the bookshelf... it's American Gods... I'm weighing it in my hand and wondering "to read or not to read?""

Yes!!


Nicole Kay wrote: "Shovelmonkey1 wrote: "High praise indeed- Gaiman has always had a mixed reception on goodreads and I've seen many lovers and many haters. I might give it a go then..."

Yes, I noticed this. Peop..."


I love his work. My faves are The Graveyard Book and Neverwhere.


Nataliya "American Gods" gets a lot of mixed reviews. I loved it - it had the great epic feel to it. I do prefer "Neverwhere" and I'd recommend it to those who are just starting on Gaiman.

Nothing is as awesome as "Good Omens" though - but that's because of the life-changing power of combined Pratchett-Gaiman genius.


message 29: by Kay (new)

Kay Shovelmonkey1 wrote: "I liked his collaboration with Pratchett (Good Omens) so where, for you ladies, does that stand on the sliding scale of Gaiman quality?"

Ooh, I haven't read that one yet. Judging from the comments here, I must pick that one up ASAP!

I liked Neverwhere a lot too. If you're unsure of starting another Gaiman, Neverwhere would be a good place to reacquaint yourself.


Nataliya Kay, you definitely should pick up "Good Omens". It is such a fun book!


Kaethe Stardust and Anansi Boys are also great fun.


Nicole Enjoyed Stardust, but felt that Anansi Boys did not ring as true as Neverwhere and American Gods. Something weird was going on with the accents that did not seem authentic. Still a good read, but not his best. Have not read Good Omens yet.


Nataliya "Anansi Boys" was my least favorite Gaiman book, and I can't pinpoint why. It's still good though, just does not reach the usual Gaiman highs.


Nicole Nataliya wrote: ""Anansi Boys" was my least favorite Gaiman book, and I can't pinpoint why. It's still good though, just does not reach the usual Gaiman highs."

Agreed!


Spider the Doof Warrior I love it. Also there's SPIDERS in it. I love spiders.


Kaethe Ha, knew you would, Syn. Thanks for making me feel less alone.


Nataliya Kaethe wrote: "Ha, knew you would, Syn. Thanks for making me feel less alone."
Synesthesia wrote: "I love it. Also there's SPIDERS in it. I love spiders."

*SHUDDER* I hate spiders! I used to be terrified of them as a kid, but my mother was terrified of them even more than I was, and so I had to (wo)man up and rid the house of them every time she would see one and go semi-catatonic at the sight. I still dislike them. Brrrrrr.....
Plus, Stephen King's "IT" cemented my wariness of them. Who knows whether the little spider is actually a Pennywise the Clown incarnate...


Kaethe Having kids forced me to hide my revulsion toward lots of little creepy crawlies, and I'm happy to say I've largely gotten over it.


Spider the Doof Warrior But they are so cute.. wolf spiders have adorable little eyes. and jumping spiders.

I wish my little tiny spiders would stay alive!


Kaethe If it were possible, Synesthesia, I would mail you all my spiders.


Kaethe Well, except that black widow I squashed, only to realize what I'd done after the fact.


Nataliya All this spider talk makes me feel like there are spiders crawling under my skin... Oh wait, that's probably because I just spent 10 minutes listening to a patient talk about it - very graphically O_O


Kaethe Poor Nataliya, poor patient.


Nataliya Kaethe wrote: "Poor Nataliya, poor patient."

Well, once the patient deals with his substance abuse problem, the spiders will likely stop crawling under the skin. So that's good.


Kaethe Not asking you to betray HIPPA or anything, but how do you treat the patient in the meantime?


Nataliya Strictly monitor vital signs for any abnormalities due to substance withdrawal and treat those if they occur. Test urine for toxins. In this case, also do prophylaxis for DTs because of alcohol withdrawal. Check for other lab abnormalities. Call psych consult to evaluate. Treat coexisting HIV-related issues. You know, the usual stuff.


Kaethe Got you. Not my field, so I was curious to know whether much had changed. Apparently not.


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