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Believing: Our Thirty-Year Journey to End Gender Violence

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"An elegant, impassioned demand that America see gender-based violence as a cultural and structural problem that hurts everyone, not just victims and survivors... It's at times downright virtuosic in the threads it weaves together."--NPR

From the woman who gave the landmark testimony against Clarence Thomas as a sexual menace, a new manifesto about the origins and course of gender violence in our society; a combination of memoir, personal accounts, law, and social analysis, and a powerful call to arms from one of our most prominent and poised survivors.

In 1991, Anita Hill began something that's still unfinished work. The issues of gender violence, touching on sex, race, age, and power, are as urgent today as they were when she first testified. Believing is a story of America's three decades long reckoning with gender violence, one that offers insights into its roots, and paths to creating dialogue and substantive change. It is a call to action that offers guidance based on what this brave, committed fighter has learned from a lifetime of advocacy and her search for solutions to a problem that is still tearing America apart.

We once thought gender-based violence--from casual harassment to rape and murder--was an individual problem that affected a few; we now know it's cultural and endemic, and happens to our acquaintances, colleagues, friends and family members, and it can be physical, emotional and verbal. Women of color experience sexual harassment at higher rates than White women. Street harassment is ubiquitous and can escalate to violence. Transgender and nonbinary people are particularly vulnerable.

Anita Hill draws on her years as a teacher, legal scholar, and advocate, and on the experiences of the thousands of individuals who have told her their stories, to trace the pipeline of behavior that follows individuals from place to place: from home to school to work and back home. In measured, clear, blunt terms, she demonstrates the impact it has on every aspect of our lives, including our physical and mental wellbeing, housing stability, political participation, economy and community safety, and how our descriptive language undermines progress toward solutions. And she is uncompromising in her demands that our laws and our leaders must address the issue concretely and immediately.

334 pages, Hardcover

First published September 28, 2021

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Anita Hill

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Anita Faye Hill, J.D. (Yale University, 1980; BS, Psychology, Oklahoma State University, 1977), is professor of social policy, law, and women's studies at Brandeis University and a faculty member of the Heller School for Social Policy and Management at Brandeis. She previously worked under Clarence Thomas at the Department of Education and the EEOC, after which she took on a professorship at the Evangelical Christian O. W. Coburn School of Law at Oral Roberts University. Her prior work with Thomas earned her a call to testify before the Senate Judiciary Committee during the hearings regarding his 1991 nomination to the Supreme Court. Her testimony alleging sexual harassment by Thomas make her a figure of national interest and a target of conservatives despite her own conservative standing. Such pressure ultimately led Hill to resign her tenured professorship at the University of Oklahoma College of Law.

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Profile Image for Roxane.
Author 123 books165k followers
September 18, 2021
Beyond Anita Hill's work as an accomplished legal scholar, she has spent the past three decades relentlessly fighting to change our cultural attitudes toward gender-based violence. In her latest book, Believing: Our Thirty-Year Journey to End Gender-Based Violence, Hill offers a deeply researched, elegantly precise, fiercely intelligent examination of the intersections of gender, violence, identity, culture, and justice. Blending memoir, analysis, and trenchant advocacy, Hill has crafted a towering and necessary work that reminds us of the work we must all do to create a safer, more equitable world where we are all free from gender-based violence.
Profile Image for Montzalee Wittmann.
4,863 reviews2,300 followers
October 12, 2022
Believing: Our Thirty-Year Journey to End Gender Violence
By Anita Hill
This is a book I couldn't read all at once or my blood pressure would go up! It angers me that not too much has changed in the last 30 years.
She writes very eloquently for such a harsh subject. She gave so many examples that will really stick with me, if I want them too or not! 😁
I didn't realize just how much there is to say about gender violence or how it effects daily life until reading this. I guess I did but really didn't sit and think it through. She is very passionate about the subject and briefly goes over her ordeal too.
I think Biden needs to expand the Supreme Court and ask Anita Hill and Obama. Hill because of the oral lynching she received from the committee Biden was part of in 1991. (Pretty similar to good ol boy Brett's selection committee.) Plus that would really mess with Thomas!😂 Obama because he is fair regardless of political side.
If the women's movement, metoo movement, or any sexual or gender violence interests you than this is your book.
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28 reviews1 follower
October 3, 2021
This was a hard read, because of how much things have not changed in 30 years. Thank goodness for for brave women who never give up, no matter how hard the patriarchy tries to squash them. I hope someday, these stories will just be a sad page in history instead of an ongoing daily reality.
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2,256 reviews49 followers
September 14, 2021
I recently attended a library conference, and Anita Hill was announced as one of the speakers. The Clarence Thomas hearings seem so long ago, and I thought she must be elderly by now, but nope – she is only a few years older than me. She was 35 when she testified about the sexual harassment she dealt with from Thomas.

Hill was a powerful speaker at the conference, and I looked forward to reading her new book Believing: Our Thirty-Year Journey to End Gender Violence. Although the book is certainly one of power and importance, I did not find it as effective as her speech.

The book comes across as a series of essays or speeches intended for different audiences on different occasions. It is at times unfocused and repetitive. (For example, I did not need to read more than once about the annual march through campus of Yale frat boys chanting “No means yes” or of the increased use of mandatory arbitration in employment contracts.) Occasionally assumptions are made that the reader is already familiar with something that is mentioned.

Hill is clearly an expert on the topic of gender violence and discrimination, and she uses a nice mix of statistics and anecdotes to make her case for change. She is a strong woman who put up with a lot of abuse over her testimony in 1991, although she also tells stories of people who supported her. Despite the wordiness and repetition, I still recommend Believing for people who want to know more about the topic.

From chapter 10: “[G]ender-based violence imperils our country’s health, safety, economic security, housing, transportation, and educational opportunities. It puts at risk our national security, as well as our social and political standing within this country and around the globe, and it reduces out ability to credibly advocate for human rights and gender equality.” (p. 232 of the advance reader copy)

I read an advance reader copy of Believing from Netgalley. It will be published in late September.
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667 reviews210 followers
July 12, 2022
Better review later but even though there's a lot of liberal law focus (because of course there is for a legal scholar) this book is really good and accessible on the topic just needs more solutions outside the law
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2,537 reviews294 followers
January 10, 2023
Listen to this woman. Hear what she says. Things need to change NOW, not later.

Pretending it isn't, acting as if it isn't, only passes it on to the next person about to be abused by whoever has a jot more power than they do. Every one of us has been in a place where we've seen, heard, (?done?), witnessed something full of unearned, borrowed or stolen dominance - it pricked us inside deep down, but we turned aside, away, left for some good (for us) reason. . .

Anita Hill's book is necessary, uncomfortable, important and her words will echo in the halls of history long after our hemming and hawing "yea, but"s do. . .

Everyone should read this book. Listening, hearing what she is saying, finding a way to open our eyes, ears and hearts to what is and has been happening in our societal interactions will help us change. And we soooo need to change.

Thank you, Anita Hill, for your words. I am truly sorry for all you and so many others have gone through. Your hope for change is a gift.
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781 reviews1 follower
October 19, 2021
If we want meaningful change in gender-based violence, awareness of facts is critical. This book delivers lots of those facts, the most infuriating of which is that NOTHING has changed in the last 30 years since the author testified about her harassment experience. Well-written, well-researched, motivating.
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347 reviews9 followers
July 7, 2022
I loved everything about this book! I have looked up to her since I was a little girl and to see she was everything I had romanticized was everything for me. She is incredibly smart and ingenious the way she formatted the book and simulataneously did a connecting and unwrapping expertly. Look sis aint new to this she true to this and this book is exactly what she said it was. This text reminds me of what the reflective learner produces after engaging in critical reflection, inquiry, and feedback. Highly recommend and buying it for my personal copy as it was a library book. Oh and shout out to the audio book narrator, January LaVoy, you did your thing sis! Perfect pitch, cadence, speed and passion/emotion. chefs kiss*
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2,762 reviews59 followers
January 13, 2022
This book is powerful, and very informative, but it can be dry at times, though the memoir components and personal stories help to balance this out.

After watching the documentary about Anita Hill, I wanted to know more about her story, especially in the wake of the the farce that was the investigation into Christine Blasey-Ford's rape allegations of now-Supreme Court Judge Brett Cavanaugh. In this book Hill combines her personal experiences, as well as specific examples from both well-publicized and lesser-known stories, with history and law precedent (that fail to) address gender-based violence to provide an overview of where we are, where we have been, and where we must go to eliminate gender-based violence, which she convincingly characterizes as a public health and existential hazard to our society.
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494 reviews5 followers
July 28, 2022
It's impossible to rate this book on a traditional scale. Given the subject matter and the disturbing details, I can't say I enjoyed it. It did make me think, though I prefer to keep those thoughts to myself for now. I would call this book (and any others like it) significant and worthy of mass attention.
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633 reviews1 follower
October 25, 2021
I was very young when Anita Hill testified against Clarence Thomas and didn't understand (at the time) the sheer courage it would have required. As I listened to Believing, I was so impressed with Ms. Hill's recounting of the hearings, as well as her perspective on the recent Kavanaugh hearings. Turns out, so was Christine Blasey Ford ( https://padailypost.com/2019/11/03/ch... )

I'd love to see Believing added to college curricula. This is an enlightening book that depicts where we are now and how far we still have to go.
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Author 2 books4 followers
December 13, 2021
Thirty years after the author faced a panel of white senators about why they should not confirm now Justice Clarence Thomas for the Supreme Court in l991, due to sexual harassment, Anita Hill, today a Professor at Brandeis University and champion of women's rights, reviews the present situation of sexual harassment in this country. The cases she presents, the stories she offers, reveal shocking evidence that not much has changed for women in this country. Hill also reviews the recent Supreme Court appointment of Justice Brett Kavanaugh and looks at the similar situation that happened when Christine Blasey Ford came forward to present evidence of his sexual harassment. Again, as in Hill's experience, gender-based sexual harassment was shoved aside. The book's provoking title reminds readers that Hill might have been left with little to believe in after the Thomas hearings. She was forced out of her job in Oklahoma, her home state and left to find work elsewhere. She demonstrates that she has never stopped fighting against gender-based harassment. I began underlining the book in the first chapter and never stopped. She calls out gender-based violence and harassment as an endemic public crisis and asks for immediate action.
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204 reviews1 follower
January 21, 2022
I'm going to be honest: I wasn't expecting to learn anything really NEW from this book. I knew it would be an important read, but I thought I knew Anita Hill's story and I thought the book would simply reiterate basic notions such as how terrible gender violence is, that victim blaming contributes to the problem, etc. Indeed, the book does lay out such arguments. But it goes far beyond that. It was ignorant of me to assume I wouldn't learn anything new. In reality, Professor Hill presents an incredibly compelling detail of gender violence in our country - its history, and its complexity. There are nuanced arguments in this book about how intersectionality plays into gender violence, how the existence of gender violence is a threat to our very democracy, why we can't entrust a "woke generation" of millennials to solve the problem, and more. Professor Hill is very well-poised to tell such a story, not only because of her personal experience in publicly sharing her story of gender violence, but also as a law professor, an advocate for victims and survivors, and a remarkably astute academic.
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110 reviews23 followers
March 13, 2023
I listened to this book on audiobook (not read by Anita Hill), it was pretty good. She is obviously a brilliant woman and this is a deeply important topic. I did feel like it was a bit repetitive or I guess just dealt with topics and examples that I was already pretty aware of and well-versed in. I actually don’t have much knowledge about the whole Clarence Thomas situation and all of the aftermath of that up until this day, so that was really interesting. I thought it was a good overview of gendered violence including everything from the Supreme Court hearings, workplace harassment, campus sexual assault, bullying of queer children, and so much more. Of course trigger warning for gendered violence!!
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344 reviews21 followers
January 28, 2022
Thorough, wide-ranging, impassioned, enraging, at times eloquent. Also sometimes repetitive and sounds like chunks of well-rehearsed speeches have been dropped in. I appreciated most the broad definition of “gender violence” in the book, from harassment and bullying to rape and intimate partner violence, and that misogynistic violence can target men and non-binary people as well as women. She discusses both the economic and equality costs of this violence. I probably wouldn’t have listened to this if I weren’t teaching a fiction course with the theme of gender and violence, but I’m not sorry I did.
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343 reviews18 followers
March 16, 2022
It’s ironic that this book often uses materialism theory (associated with Althusser and communism) to analyze SA - like how victims blaming and making abuse actually has very systemic implications, even economic - even though the tone is largely leftist democrat. There’s a lot of lauding of former Secretary of State Clinton, Vice President Harris, and even RBG, a woman who directly voted against laws that would protect Native American women from SA. This book has far too much politician worshiping for me - they’re all imperialists.
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Author 10 books79 followers
November 18, 2021
It took me a while to finish this book (through no fault of Hill's - life just got in the way). It should be a must-read for everyone, no matter your gender or race or identity. As Hill so eloquently and succinctly puts it: Gender violence damages us all. Hill lays out the centuries-old problem of gender inequality and puts forth a treatise urging us to find our way through the thorny path to true equality. Her research is thorough and tinged with her personal story, though she turns her focus outward to the millions of victims from every gender and race. I cannot recommend this book enough.
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3,291 reviews63 followers
December 2, 2021
Hill on Gender Discrimination

This book is very impersonal. It written as a law professor might approach a subject with details and arguments. I appreciate the information but was very disappointed that Hill doesn’t choose to reveal more of herself and make her arguments more relatable. While she reveals individual cases, they aren’t humanized. I was disappointed by that.
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1,864 reviews54 followers
April 5, 2022
Poignant. I read a lot and do a lot of work in this space so a lot was not new. But Hill’s thoughts and perspective is so needed and so informative.

The book is a bit cerebral but there are also a lot of stories. Very informative.

Warnings: at times she uses strong language from others. It also is a book about sexual violence, so I feel that trigger should be self-evident.
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187 reviews6 followers
February 3, 2022
This is an essential, but uncomfortable read. If you are a survivor of gender violence, please take care of yourself while you read.
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443 reviews
October 26, 2021
What a powerful book. Definitely a must read for anyone with an interest in ending gender-based violence (ie. everyone).
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32 reviews
December 22, 2022
Not going to lie I didnt finish this book, didnt even get 30 pages in. Why? It seems pretty superficial and only scratching the surface of intersectionality. In my opinion this isnt adding anything to the conversation on intersectionality snd feminism. It was gifted to me when Anita Hill came to talk at my school, based on her talk I shouldve seen this coming.
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841 reviews
November 18, 2021
This is a powerful book with a lot of information. She shares a lot of stories of gender violence that I somehow never heard about before. It is maddening to hear about how little has changed in the last 49 years. I can only hope that we find someone to lead this charge from the White House as soon as possible. (This doesn’t mean I agree with everything she says, but I still think it’s important to consider her views.)
57 reviews
September 19, 2022
I really love this book by Aniita Hill . It really is a well written compelling read that really makes you think and raises questions. This book has me signing petitions on things like repealing certian supreme court decisions , taking the caps off of the amounts given to plantiffs by the courts in court decisons , getting rid of the statuate of limitations on cases where there is evidence of compliant after compliant filed against a certian person or organization or group ; giving whistle blower protections to people who come forward about abuses, giving a compliant review process for cases where politicans are accused of wrong doing and for service workers and migrant workers, making it so in cases where there is evidence of various compliants of abuse , making it so public funds are used to persue cases by public attorneys in the public interest, making it so people found guilty of wrongdoing have to reimburse the government for money they spent on these cases , getting rid of arbitation in contracts and banning the use of nondisclosure agreements in cases of criminal offences , also making it so allegations of abuse in schools is immedately investigated by a outside source. This book will have you asking what you can do to end gender violence as one of our most impoatant probelms.
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311 reviews
December 5, 2021
She talks about the unfortunately many reasons ending gender violence has not improved in 30 yrs.
Society denial and acceptance of levels of violence as 'normal'.

"The Special Master's report...revealed that he could not understand why on ewoman was fearful when a man who she said had exposed himself to her several years earlier began driving his truck in circle, over and over, around her work area. "This court has difficulty understanding why the appearance of a suspected flasher outside the building in which she was working...would cause great fear - of something- in a reasonable woman."" pg 31

"The department chair dismissed her complaint about the affairs, concluding that the student was merely jealous because the director showed her no sexual attention. He based his conclusion on conversations he had with the program's male faculty, who also pointed out that the director's was normal for a man in his position. In addition to being famous in his field, the director was single." pg 127
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8 reviews2 followers
October 2, 2021
The fact that this doesn’t have 5 stars from every review is shocking — and sad. This is an essential must read from one the three most daring advocates against sexual harassment, assault & r*pe for literally the last 30 years. You will learn, you will cry and you will be angry. But this is 5 star work and a 5 star read.
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April 9, 2022
I really wanted to like this, but it was just so…superficial? I really wanted her to go into more detail with things.
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