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It's What Makes Me . . . Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times
It's What Makes Me... Me is an extraordinarily candid journey through what it means to be human. Amazon's bestselling and award-winning author Mark Shaiken unlocks his most personal thoughts, observations, and introspections through the highs and lows, youth and aging, and beauty and messiness of life. Laugh, reflect, and take in all the ins and outs that have uniquely combined to make Mark... Mark.
305 pages, Kindle Edition
Published July 23, 2024
About the author
Mark Shaiken
9 books30 followersMark lives with his wife Loren and their dog Emily in Denver, Colorado. He schooled at Haverford College and Washburn University, and practiced commercial bankruptcy law for almost forty years before moving on in 2019 to write, volunteer, travel, and play music. He is the author of the following books in his award-winning 3J Legal Thriller Series, all set in Kansas City, with a backdrop of Jazz, BBQ and history: Cram Down, Unfair Discrimination, Automatic Stay, and Fresh Start. He is also the author of And . . Just Like That - essays on a life before, during, and after the law (a memoir of a not famous lawyer). Connect with Mark at http://markshaikenauthor.com
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August 12, 2024
As a big fan of Mark Shaiken’s 3J Legal Thriller Series, I was naturally excited to dive into his new collection of essays. Knowing his flair for delivering a good story, I was eager to see how his candid style would translate into personal reflections. “It’s What Makes Me… Me” offers an unfiltered (semi-unfiltered?) glimpse into the man behind the bankruptcy courtroom dramas, along with his take on a slew of topics both eclectic and down-to-earth.
The essays are divided into groups, a few of my favorite topics being, Some Stuff About Me, On Writing, Pop Culture & Me, Observations, Reflections & Opinions, Aging—We All Seem To Be Doing It and, of course, The 3J Legal Thriller Series.
Reading “It’s What Makes Me… Me” was an absolute delight, and I felt like I was reminiscing with an old friend. Shaiken draws you into his world with ease and familiarity, be it the things we have in common or the things we’ve thought about but have never voiced. If you have thought about it, Shaiken has probably written about it in this book.
The writing is striking and balanced. Shaiken applies the same attention to detail you might expect of a seasoned attorney. His ability to be deeply personal and universally relatable draws readers into a shared space of connection. I can’t count the number of times I found myself nodding and talking back to the book with declarations of “Yes!” and “Right?” and “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that.”
Essays on aging, for instance, unapologetically navigates the bittersweet reality with grace and wit. In “Getting Old, The Golden Years Scam,” Shaiken confronts those who claim older is better, touting that it’s all lies and fake news and definitely not better. Shaiken backs these sentiments up by listing examples of “not better” such as having to change your diet to eliminate certain food groups, or not being able to hear things or forgetting things. The chapter wraps up with a discussion about how there is nothing better about self-improvement quotes.
“Whoever said, ‘Age is just a number, but attitude is everything’ was wrong. They meant a good attitude. I’ve developed an attitude as I’ve gotten older, but it’s not a good one. It’s this: aging isn’t for the faint of heart.”
He jests, but he’s clearly enjoying his golden years as an award-winning author, photographer, musician and poet. His motto appears to be, “bring it on!”
The section “On Writing” obviously appealed to me as a supporter of independent authors. I always find it fascinating when a writer reveals their frustrations and triumphs on the creative process and was happy to agree with the author on most things. Another instance of “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that” is Shaiken’s response to why he writes books. The answer: “Writing is better than talking with someone.” Amen to that! He also has some cheeky comments about book reviewers, LOL, along with some good advice for authors; my favorite being how to write dialogue. You’re going to have to read the book for the answer, though.
The most difficult part of reviewing a collection of essays is narrowing your thoughts down to just a few stories. With “It’s What Makes Me… Me,” it was especially challenging as I found something in nearly every story worthy of mention. So, consider this review as simply a fraction of my thoughts about Shaiken’s collective musings. It’s a beautiful mix of storytelling, life lessons, and candid observations that make for a read you won’t be able to put down. I don’t know about you, but I can’t say that about too many non-fiction titles.
Whether you’re a fan of Mark Shaiken’s novels or new to his work, this collection, “It’s What Makes Me… Me” is a testament to the power of storytelling in all its forms – a must-read for anyone who appreciates a story well told. As a big fan of Mark Shaiken’s 3J Legal Thriller Series, I was naturally excited to dive into his new collection of essays. Knowing his flair for delivering a good story, I was eager to see how his candid style would translate into personal reflections. “It’s What Makes Me… Me” offers an unfiltered (semi-unfiltered?) glimpse into the man behind the bankruptcy courtroom dramas, along with his take on a slew of topics both eclectic and down-to-earth.
The essays are divided into groups, a few of my favorite topics being, Some Stuff About Me, On Writing, Pop Culture & Me, Observations, Reflections & Opinions, Aging—We All Seem To Be Doing It and, of course, The 3J Legal Thriller Series.
Reading “It’s What Makes Me… Me” was an absolute delight, and I felt like I was reminiscing with an old friend. Shaiken draws you into his world with ease and familiarity, be it the things we have in common or the things we’ve thought about but have never voiced. If you have thought about it, Shaiken has probably written about it in this book.
The writing is striking and balanced. Shaiken applies the same attention to detail you might expect of a seasoned attorney. His ability to be deeply personal and universally relatable draws readers into a shared space of connection. I can’t count the number of times I found myself nodding and talking back to the book with declarations of “Yes!” and “Right?” and “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that.”
Essays on aging, for instance, unapologetically navigates the bittersweet reality with grace and wit. In “Getting Old, The Golden Years Scam,” Shaiken confronts those who claim older is better, touting that it’s all lies and fake news and definitely not better. Shaiken backs these sentiments up by listing examples of “not better” such as having to change your diet to eliminate certain food groups, or not being able to hear things or forgetting things. The chapter wraps up with a discussion about how there is nothing better about self-improvement quotes.
“Whoever said, ‘Age is just a number, but attitude is everything’ was wrong. They meant a good attitude. I’ve developed an attitude as I’ve gotten older, but it’s not a good one. It’s this: aging isn’t for the faint of heart.”
He jests, but he’s clearly enjoying his golden years as an award-winning author, photographer, musician and poet. His motto appears to be, “bring it on!”
The section “On Writing” obviously appealed to me as a supporter of independent authors. I always find it fascinating when a writer reveals their frustrations and triumphs on the creative process and was happy to agree with the author on most things. Another instance of “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that” is Shaiken’s response to why he writes books. The answer: “Writing is better than talking with someone.” Amen to that! He also has some cheeky comments about book reviewers, LOL, along with some good advice for authors; my favorite being how to write dialogue. You’re going to have to read the book for the answer, though.
The most difficult part of reviewing a collection of essays is narrowing your thoughts down to just a few stories. With “It’s What Makes Me… Me,” it was especially challenging as I found something in nearly every story worthy of mention. So, consider this review as simply a fraction of my thoughts about Shaiken’s collective musings. It’s a beautiful mix of storytelling, life lessons, and candid observations that make for a read you won’t be able to put down. I don’t know about you, but I can’t say that about too many non-fiction titles.
Whether you’re a fan of Mark Shaiken’s novels or new to his work, this collection, “It’s What Makes Me… Me” is a testament to the power of storytelling in all its forms – a must-read for anyone who appreciates a story well told.
The essays are divided into groups, a few of my favorite topics being, Some Stuff About Me, On Writing, Pop Culture & Me, Observations, Reflections & Opinions, Aging—We All Seem To Be Doing It and, of course, The 3J Legal Thriller Series.
Reading “It’s What Makes Me… Me” was an absolute delight, and I felt like I was reminiscing with an old friend. Shaiken draws you into his world with ease and familiarity, be it the things we have in common or the things we’ve thought about but have never voiced. If you have thought about it, Shaiken has probably written about it in this book.
The writing is striking and balanced. Shaiken applies the same attention to detail you might expect of a seasoned attorney. His ability to be deeply personal and universally relatable draws readers into a shared space of connection. I can’t count the number of times I found myself nodding and talking back to the book with declarations of “Yes!” and “Right?” and “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that.”
Essays on aging, for instance, unapologetically navigates the bittersweet reality with grace and wit. In “Getting Old, The Golden Years Scam,” Shaiken confronts those who claim older is better, touting that it’s all lies and fake news and definitely not better. Shaiken backs these sentiments up by listing examples of “not better” such as having to change your diet to eliminate certain food groups, or not being able to hear things or forgetting things. The chapter wraps up with a discussion about how there is nothing better about self-improvement quotes.
“Whoever said, ‘Age is just a number, but attitude is everything’ was wrong. They meant a good attitude. I’ve developed an attitude as I’ve gotten older, but it’s not a good one. It’s this: aging isn’t for the faint of heart.”
He jests, but he’s clearly enjoying his golden years as an award-winning author, photographer, musician and poet. His motto appears to be, “bring it on!”
The section “On Writing” obviously appealed to me as a supporter of independent authors. I always find it fascinating when a writer reveals their frustrations and triumphs on the creative process and was happy to agree with the author on most things. Another instance of “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that” is Shaiken’s response to why he writes books. The answer: “Writing is better than talking with someone.” Amen to that! He also has some cheeky comments about book reviewers, LOL, along with some good advice for authors; my favorite being how to write dialogue. You’re going to have to read the book for the answer, though.
The most difficult part of reviewing a collection of essays is narrowing your thoughts down to just a few stories. With “It’s What Makes Me… Me,” it was especially challenging as I found something in nearly every story worthy of mention. So, consider this review as simply a fraction of my thoughts about Shaiken’s collective musings. It’s a beautiful mix of storytelling, life lessons, and candid observations that make for a read you won’t be able to put down. I don’t know about you, but I can’t say that about too many non-fiction titles.
Whether you’re a fan of Mark Shaiken’s novels or new to his work, this collection, “It’s What Makes Me… Me” is a testament to the power of storytelling in all its forms – a must-read for anyone who appreciates a story well told. As a big fan of Mark Shaiken’s 3J Legal Thriller Series, I was naturally excited to dive into his new collection of essays. Knowing his flair for delivering a good story, I was eager to see how his candid style would translate into personal reflections. “It’s What Makes Me… Me” offers an unfiltered (semi-unfiltered?) glimpse into the man behind the bankruptcy courtroom dramas, along with his take on a slew of topics both eclectic and down-to-earth.
The essays are divided into groups, a few of my favorite topics being, Some Stuff About Me, On Writing, Pop Culture & Me, Observations, Reflections & Opinions, Aging—We All Seem To Be Doing It and, of course, The 3J Legal Thriller Series.
Reading “It’s What Makes Me… Me” was an absolute delight, and I felt like I was reminiscing with an old friend. Shaiken draws you into his world with ease and familiarity, be it the things we have in common or the things we’ve thought about but have never voiced. If you have thought about it, Shaiken has probably written about it in this book.
The writing is striking and balanced. Shaiken applies the same attention to detail you might expect of a seasoned attorney. His ability to be deeply personal and universally relatable draws readers into a shared space of connection. I can’t count the number of times I found myself nodding and talking back to the book with declarations of “Yes!” and “Right?” and “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that.”
Essays on aging, for instance, unapologetically navigates the bittersweet reality with grace and wit. In “Getting Old, The Golden Years Scam,” Shaiken confronts those who claim older is better, touting that it’s all lies and fake news and definitely not better. Shaiken backs these sentiments up by listing examples of “not better” such as having to change your diet to eliminate certain food groups, or not being able to hear things or forgetting things. The chapter wraps up with a discussion about how there is nothing better about self-improvement quotes.
“Whoever said, ‘Age is just a number, but attitude is everything’ was wrong. They meant a good attitude. I’ve developed an attitude as I’ve gotten older, but it’s not a good one. It’s this: aging isn’t for the faint of heart.”
He jests, but he’s clearly enjoying his golden years as an award-winning author, photographer, musician and poet. His motto appears to be, “bring it on!”
The section “On Writing” obviously appealed to me as a supporter of independent authors. I always find it fascinating when a writer reveals their frustrations and triumphs on the creative process and was happy to agree with the author on most things. Another instance of “I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that” is Shaiken’s response to why he writes books. The answer: “Writing is better than talking with someone.” Amen to that! He also has some cheeky comments about book reviewers, LOL, along with some good advice for authors; my favorite being how to write dialogue. You’re going to have to read the book for the answer, though.
The most difficult part of reviewing a collection of essays is narrowing your thoughts down to just a few stories. With “It’s What Makes Me… Me,” it was especially challenging as I found something in nearly every story worthy of mention. So, consider this review as simply a fraction of my thoughts about Shaiken’s collective musings. It’s a beautiful mix of storytelling, life lessons, and candid observations that make for a read you won’t be able to put down. I don’t know about you, but I can’t say that about too many non-fiction titles.
Whether you’re a fan of Mark Shaiken’s novels or new to his work, this collection, “It’s What Makes Me… Me” is a testament to the power of storytelling in all its forms – a must-read for anyone who appreciates a story well told.
July 25, 2024
It’s What Makes Me . . . Me is a captivating collection of essays that offer a unique perspective on life. Written by a retired attorney, Mark Shaiken's essays cover a wide range of topics, from personal anecdotes to professional experiences. He invites readers into his world, sharing the journey that shaped him. His candid and often humorous musings paint a vivid picture of a man navigating the transitions from law to a more introspective, creative life.
Shaiken's writing is not just insightful but also remarkably relatable. In chapters like "I Look Bad in a Hat," his self-deprecating humor shines through, offering a light-hearted look at his attempts to fit into certain societal norms, a struggle many can relate to. Similarly, "Ramblin’ Not Amblin’" provides a poignant reflection on his life's journey, marked by a series of significant moves and career changes. The essay captures the essence of someone who has never taken the easy path but instead embraced the twists and turns of a life well-lived.
In "Baseball & Me," Shaiken’s love for the sport transcends mere fandom, becoming a lens through which he views and understands life’s complexities. His detailed memories of watching games with family and the evolving nature of his support for various teams reveal the deep connections and traditions that sports can foster. This essay is a delightful mix of nostalgia and personal growth, capturing the timeless nature of America's favorite pastime.
The chapter "Work, Sleep, and Repeat" resonated deeply with me due to its poignant exploration of the monotonous cycle often experienced in demanding careers. Shaiken captures the essence of this repetitive routine by illustrating his personal experiences as a lawyer. He details the relentless pressure and the lack of personal time, which many professionals can relate to. The chapter’s strength lies in its raw honesty, Shaiken doesn’t shy away from describing the toll this lifestyle took on his mental and physical health. For instance, his recounting of late-night calls and the perpetual sense of urgency vividly paints a picture of a life where work dominates every waking moment.
"It’s What Makes Me . . . Me" is a compelling read for anyone interested in personal essays that blend humor, introspection, and life lessons. Shaiken’s ability to reflect on his experiences with authenticity and wit makes this book a worthwhile addition to any reader’s shelf. Whether you’re a fan of legal stories, personal memoirs, or simply enjoy a well-told story, this collection offers something for everyone.
Shaiken's writing is not just insightful but also remarkably relatable. In chapters like "I Look Bad in a Hat," his self-deprecating humor shines through, offering a light-hearted look at his attempts to fit into certain societal norms, a struggle many can relate to. Similarly, "Ramblin’ Not Amblin’" provides a poignant reflection on his life's journey, marked by a series of significant moves and career changes. The essay captures the essence of someone who has never taken the easy path but instead embraced the twists and turns of a life well-lived.
In "Baseball & Me," Shaiken’s love for the sport transcends mere fandom, becoming a lens through which he views and understands life’s complexities. His detailed memories of watching games with family and the evolving nature of his support for various teams reveal the deep connections and traditions that sports can foster. This essay is a delightful mix of nostalgia and personal growth, capturing the timeless nature of America's favorite pastime.
The chapter "Work, Sleep, and Repeat" resonated deeply with me due to its poignant exploration of the monotonous cycle often experienced in demanding careers. Shaiken captures the essence of this repetitive routine by illustrating his personal experiences as a lawyer. He details the relentless pressure and the lack of personal time, which many professionals can relate to. The chapter’s strength lies in its raw honesty, Shaiken doesn’t shy away from describing the toll this lifestyle took on his mental and physical health. For instance, his recounting of late-night calls and the perpetual sense of urgency vividly paints a picture of a life where work dominates every waking moment.
"It’s What Makes Me . . . Me" is a compelling read for anyone interested in personal essays that blend humor, introspection, and life lessons. Shaiken’s ability to reflect on his experiences with authenticity and wit makes this book a worthwhile addition to any reader’s shelf. Whether you’re a fan of legal stories, personal memoirs, or simply enjoy a well-told story, this collection offers something for everyone.
July 25, 2024
‘You can’t know where you’re going unless you know where you’ve been’ – Reflections on life
Colorado author Mark A. Shaiken earned his degrees from Haverford College and Washburn University and served as an attorney, practicing commercial bankruptcy law. Now retired from law, he writes novels informed by that career: his books to date: AND… JUST LIKE THAT, FRESH START, AUTOMATIC STAY, UNFAIR DISCRIMINATION, and CRAM DOWN. In his debut - AND…JUST LIKE THAT - he shared his experiences with ending his law practice – his post-law days. Now four years later he offers WHAT MAKES ME…ME, a collection of essays about his life since law presented is his inimitable writing style that provides an opportunity for the reader to relate not only to his life experiences but also stimulates self reflection!
Or as he states as the book opens, ‘My essay process is simple: I have things on my mind, I write them down, you read them, and in doing so, I transfer my ideas to your head, and I move on to the next topic. Writing things down gets them out of my brain, hands them off to you, and leaves more space in my head for new stuff. I don't have a monkey brain chattering away at me all the time, but I have lots of notions in there and I share them. Sharing things is my way of trying to figure it all out….anyone who’s been in the law business for a long time, like me, perhaps, maybe, just possibly, could use some therapy. Consider these compositions my therapy sessions with you. I thank you in advance for the couch and your ear...These essays are about my relationship with my life. Maybe, in some ways, just like your life and your relationship with it. So read on and see some of what’s inside my head, my relationship with life, and what has always made me...me.’
In that construct Mark muses on his personality traits, his entry into the author arena, thoughts on pop culture, philosophical reflections, the process of aging, his poetry, and others thoughts delivered with wit, sarcasm at times, insight, tenderness, and in the end, genuine concern and caring about how we all should be ourselves. Poignant – and pertinent – this book is a treasure!
Colorado author Mark A. Shaiken earned his degrees from Haverford College and Washburn University and served as an attorney, practicing commercial bankruptcy law. Now retired from law, he writes novels informed by that career: his books to date: AND… JUST LIKE THAT, FRESH START, AUTOMATIC STAY, UNFAIR DISCRIMINATION, and CRAM DOWN. In his debut - AND…JUST LIKE THAT - he shared his experiences with ending his law practice – his post-law days. Now four years later he offers WHAT MAKES ME…ME, a collection of essays about his life since law presented is his inimitable writing style that provides an opportunity for the reader to relate not only to his life experiences but also stimulates self reflection!
Or as he states as the book opens, ‘My essay process is simple: I have things on my mind, I write them down, you read them, and in doing so, I transfer my ideas to your head, and I move on to the next topic. Writing things down gets them out of my brain, hands them off to you, and leaves more space in my head for new stuff. I don't have a monkey brain chattering away at me all the time, but I have lots of notions in there and I share them. Sharing things is my way of trying to figure it all out….anyone who’s been in the law business for a long time, like me, perhaps, maybe, just possibly, could use some therapy. Consider these compositions my therapy sessions with you. I thank you in advance for the couch and your ear...These essays are about my relationship with my life. Maybe, in some ways, just like your life and your relationship with it. So read on and see some of what’s inside my head, my relationship with life, and what has always made me...me.’
In that construct Mark muses on his personality traits, his entry into the author arena, thoughts on pop culture, philosophical reflections, the process of aging, his poetry, and others thoughts delivered with wit, sarcasm at times, insight, tenderness, and in the end, genuine concern and caring about how we all should be ourselves. Poignant – and pertinent – this book is a treasure!
September 24, 2024
Book Review: It's What Makes Me . . . Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times
by Mark Shaiken
Rating:5/5
Review:
👉Mark Shaiken's It's What Makes Me . . . Me is an extraordinary collection of essays that takes readers on a candid journey through the ups and downs of life. As an Amazon bestselling author, Shaiken shares his most personal thoughts and experiences, offering insight into what has shaped him into the person he is today.
👉This book is a delightful mix of humor and introspection, showcasing Shaiken's talent for relating life’s complexities in a way that resonates with readers. Each essay invites us into his world, filled with both poignant reflections and laugh-out-loud moments. For example, in "I Look Bad in a Hat," he tackles the pressures of fitting into societal norms with self-deprecating humor that many of us can relate to. This light-hearted approach adds a touch of warmth to the deeper themes explored throughout the collection.
👉In "Ramblin’ Not Amblin’," Shaiken reflects on his journey, characterized by significant moves and career changes. He embraces the unpredictability of life, showcasing the resilience it takes to navigate these transitions. This essay perfectly encapsulates a life well-lived, emphasizing the beauty found in change.
👉One of the standout pieces is "Baseball & Me," where Shaiken’s love for the sport becomes a lens through which he explores life's intricacies. His nostalgic recollections of family game nights evoke a sense of connection and tradition, reminding us how these shared experiences shape our identities.
👉The chapter "Work, Sleep, and Repeat" hits particularly hard for anyone entrenched in a demanding career. Shaiken's raw honesty about the pressures of his legal profession paints a vivid picture of the toll that relentless work can take on one’s mental and physical health. His recounting of late-night calls and the struggle for personal time is a powerful reminder of the importance of balance in our lives.
👉Overall, It’s What Makes Me . . . Me is a captivating read that blends humor, introspection, and valuable life lessons.
Happy reading 😁😁
#bookreview
by Mark Shaiken
Rating:5/5
Review:
👉Mark Shaiken's It's What Makes Me . . . Me is an extraordinary collection of essays that takes readers on a candid journey through the ups and downs of life. As an Amazon bestselling author, Shaiken shares his most personal thoughts and experiences, offering insight into what has shaped him into the person he is today.
👉This book is a delightful mix of humor and introspection, showcasing Shaiken's talent for relating life’s complexities in a way that resonates with readers. Each essay invites us into his world, filled with both poignant reflections and laugh-out-loud moments. For example, in "I Look Bad in a Hat," he tackles the pressures of fitting into societal norms with self-deprecating humor that many of us can relate to. This light-hearted approach adds a touch of warmth to the deeper themes explored throughout the collection.
👉In "Ramblin’ Not Amblin’," Shaiken reflects on his journey, characterized by significant moves and career changes. He embraces the unpredictability of life, showcasing the resilience it takes to navigate these transitions. This essay perfectly encapsulates a life well-lived, emphasizing the beauty found in change.
👉One of the standout pieces is "Baseball & Me," where Shaiken’s love for the sport becomes a lens through which he explores life's intricacies. His nostalgic recollections of family game nights evoke a sense of connection and tradition, reminding us how these shared experiences shape our identities.
👉The chapter "Work, Sleep, and Repeat" hits particularly hard for anyone entrenched in a demanding career. Shaiken's raw honesty about the pressures of his legal profession paints a vivid picture of the toll that relentless work can take on one’s mental and physical health. His recounting of late-night calls and the struggle for personal time is a powerful reminder of the importance of balance in our lives.
👉Overall, It’s What Makes Me . . . Me is a captivating read that blends humor, introspection, and valuable life lessons.
Happy reading 😁😁
#bookreview
August 31, 2024
Mark Shaiken’s book is written in a simple and easy-to-read style, making it feel like a conversation with an old friend. He shares various aspects of his life, particularly those that shaped him into the person he is today—a retired attorney with extensive experience in bankruptcy law, among other areas.
The book is challenging to categorize because it doesn’t follow a linear narrative. Each chapter covers different experiences, and while they might not seem connected at first, they eventually come together to form a cohesive whole. This approach adds a certain charm to the book, and by the end, the seemingly unrelated chapters make sense as part of a larger picture. At times, the writing feels almost like fiction, which wasn’t surprising to me since I’m familiar with the author’s other works. He has a knack for writing with a comic touch, though this book evokes a range of emotions beyond just humor. What stood out to me was the author’s reflection on how living a rich and culturally diverse life presents countless opportunities. He demonstrates that achieving a fulfilling life involves diversifying activities over the years and shows how each activity—whether sports, music, or study—has impacted his life, pursued with discipline and determination.
I found it to be an interesting autobiography. It doesn’t follow the typical chronological format; instead, it blends experiences across different chapters, drawing out both the positive and negative aspects of each activity and analyzing them in the final chapters. This book is recommended for a wide range of readers, as it offers something different for everyone.
The book is challenging to categorize because it doesn’t follow a linear narrative. Each chapter covers different experiences, and while they might not seem connected at first, they eventually come together to form a cohesive whole. This approach adds a certain charm to the book, and by the end, the seemingly unrelated chapters make sense as part of a larger picture. At times, the writing feels almost like fiction, which wasn’t surprising to me since I’m familiar with the author’s other works. He has a knack for writing with a comic touch, though this book evokes a range of emotions beyond just humor. What stood out to me was the author’s reflection on how living a rich and culturally diverse life presents countless opportunities. He demonstrates that achieving a fulfilling life involves diversifying activities over the years and shows how each activity—whether sports, music, or study—has impacted his life, pursued with discipline and determination.
I found it to be an interesting autobiography. It doesn’t follow the typical chronological format; instead, it blends experiences across different chapters, drawing out both the positive and negative aspects of each activity and analyzing them in the final chapters. This book is recommended for a wide range of readers, as it offers something different for everyone.
September 2, 2024
As I read this book, I found myself laughing out loud several times. It’s a truly wonderful and thought-provoking read. The author’s writing style is engaging, and the book is filled with anecdotes from his life—ranging from hardships to successes. He invites readers into pivotal moments of his life, making those experiences feel vivid and real.
The title of the book, in my opinion, perfectly reflects the author’s personality. He has crafted a series of essays filled with humor and reflections on his life. The way he writes encourages readers to reflect on their own lives, drawing them in as if they were reading a captivating fiction novel rather than a memoir. The author’s laid-back, relatable, and comic tone makes this memoir feel approachable. He touches on topics like youth, aging, beauty, and the simple joys of human experience. I particularly enjoyed the chapters “Pop Culture and Me” and “Poetry and Me,” as I found them especially relatable. The author’s witty and engaging personality shines through in his writing, making it easy for readers to connect with him. The book is set in Denver, Colorado, which adds another layer to the experiences he shares. I appreciated how the author motivates readers to look inward and recognize the unique and special moments that enrich our daily lives.
In my opinion, this book is filled with important life lessons. It’s motivating and highlights that while life has its struggles, it also offers solutions and brighter days. I highly recommend this book!
The title of the book, in my opinion, perfectly reflects the author’s personality. He has crafted a series of essays filled with humor and reflections on his life. The way he writes encourages readers to reflect on their own lives, drawing them in as if they were reading a captivating fiction novel rather than a memoir. The author’s laid-back, relatable, and comic tone makes this memoir feel approachable. He touches on topics like youth, aging, beauty, and the simple joys of human experience. I particularly enjoyed the chapters “Pop Culture and Me” and “Poetry and Me,” as I found them especially relatable. The author’s witty and engaging personality shines through in his writing, making it easy for readers to connect with him. The book is set in Denver, Colorado, which adds another layer to the experiences he shares. I appreciated how the author motivates readers to look inward and recognize the unique and special moments that enrich our daily lives.
In my opinion, this book is filled with important life lessons. It’s motivating and highlights that while life has its struggles, it also offers solutions and brighter days. I highly recommend this book!
August 31, 2024
"Patient- Heal thyself?"
This book is a compelling collection of essays that offers a glimpse into the author's life, experiences, and reflections as both a lawyer and a writer. Through his candid writing style, the author shares his thoughts on life, aging, pop culture, and more, providing readers with intimate yet relatable insights. The essays are well-organized, showcasing different aspects of his life, from his legal career to his post-law experiences, and highlighting how the people and events in his life have shaped him.
I particularly enjoyed how the author seamlessly combines personal anecdotes with broader observations, making the stories feel like conversations with a friend. His legal background is evident in the structured and methodical way he presents his ideas, which adds to the clarity and engagement of the writing. As a superhero fan, I found his reflections on characters like Spiderman and Ironman especially enjoyable. The humorous story about posting on Craigslist to find a primary care physician resonated with me, as did the tale about using a calendar to avoid confusion—both were funny and relatable.
The author’s experiences and storytelling style make him someone you’d want to sit down with and listen to for hours. His essays are not only entertaining and amusing but also inspiring, leaving me eager to hear more of his stories. This is a book that invites you to reflect on life and appreciate the wisdom gained from diverse experiences.
This book is a compelling collection of essays that offers a glimpse into the author's life, experiences, and reflections as both a lawyer and a writer. Through his candid writing style, the author shares his thoughts on life, aging, pop culture, and more, providing readers with intimate yet relatable insights. The essays are well-organized, showcasing different aspects of his life, from his legal career to his post-law experiences, and highlighting how the people and events in his life have shaped him.
I particularly enjoyed how the author seamlessly combines personal anecdotes with broader observations, making the stories feel like conversations with a friend. His legal background is evident in the structured and methodical way he presents his ideas, which adds to the clarity and engagement of the writing. As a superhero fan, I found his reflections on characters like Spiderman and Ironman especially enjoyable. The humorous story about posting on Craigslist to find a primary care physician resonated with me, as did the tale about using a calendar to avoid confusion—both were funny and relatable.
The author’s experiences and storytelling style make him someone you’d want to sit down with and listen to for hours. His essays are not only entertaining and amusing but also inspiring, leaving me eager to hear more of his stories. This is a book that invites you to reflect on life and appreciate the wisdom gained from diverse experiences.
August 3, 2024
A Journey of Self-Discovery: Mark Shaiken's Reflective Memoir...
Mark Shaiken's memoir, "It's What Makes Me... Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times," takes readers on an introspective journey through his life's highs and lows, from his work in commercial bankruptcy litigation to his post-retirement activities of writing, volunteering, and music. Set in Denver, Colorado, Shaiken's open and hilarious writing delves into issues such as youth, age, and the intricacies of human existence.
Shaiken's pieces encourage readers to reflect on their own lives, combining personal experiences with bigger questions about what it means to be human. His captivating style catches the essence of his environment and the people in his life, transforming this book into a universal journey of self-discovery and joy. "It's What Makes Me... Me" is an engaging read for anyone interested in personal development and the ongoing desire to comprehend one's own journey. Highly recommended.
Mark Shaiken's memoir, "It's What Makes Me... Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times," takes readers on an introspective journey through his life's highs and lows, from his work in commercial bankruptcy litigation to his post-retirement activities of writing, volunteering, and music. Set in Denver, Colorado, Shaiken's open and hilarious writing delves into issues such as youth, age, and the intricacies of human existence.
Shaiken's pieces encourage readers to reflect on their own lives, combining personal experiences with bigger questions about what it means to be human. His captivating style catches the essence of his environment and the people in his life, transforming this book into a universal journey of self-discovery and joy. "It's What Makes Me... Me" is an engaging read for anyone interested in personal development and the ongoing desire to comprehend one's own journey. Highly recommended.
August 18, 2024
Authentic and Thought-Provoking
"It's What Makes Me, Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times" by Mark Shaiken is a captivating collection of essays that offers an authentic and introspective look at life's journey. Shaiken’s candid storytelling and blend of comedy with intimate reflections make this book both relatable and enriching.
Through his essays, Shaiken invites readers to reflect on their own lives, exploring themes of youth, aging, and the beauty of human experience. The memoir’s laid-back tone creates a conversational feel, making it more engaging and less daunting than many other memoirs.
Reading this book, I found myself reminiscing about my own experiences and contemplating how I will view my life after retirement. It’s a reminder to appreciate the present and live each day to the fullest.
I highly recommend this memoir for its inspiring and thought-provoking insights. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!
Five stars!⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️
"It's What Makes Me, Me: A Retired Attorney's Relationship With Life and Times" by Mark Shaiken is a captivating collection of essays that offers an authentic and introspective look at life's journey. Shaiken’s candid storytelling and blend of comedy with intimate reflections make this book both relatable and enriching.
Through his essays, Shaiken invites readers to reflect on their own lives, exploring themes of youth, aging, and the beauty of human experience. The memoir’s laid-back tone creates a conversational feel, making it more engaging and less daunting than many other memoirs.
Reading this book, I found myself reminiscing about my own experiences and contemplating how I will view my life after retirement. It’s a reminder to appreciate the present and live each day to the fullest.
I highly recommend this memoir for its inspiring and thought-provoking insights. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!
Five stars!⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️
August 31, 2024
The book’s strength lies in Shaiken’s ability to balance introspective reflections with humor, creating a narrative that feels both candid and thoughtful. As a reader, I appreciated how Shaiken navigates life’s ups and downs with refreshing authenticity, making it easy to feel connected to him. His ability to share personal anecdotes in a relatable way is truly commendable. Rather than just recounting his life, the book engages readers in a dialogue about their own experiences and emotions. It’s a celebration of the human condition, filled with moments of laughter and deep thought. This collection of essays showcases Shaiken’s storytelling prowess and his ability to help readers see their own lives in a new light.
I would highly recommend reading this book as it is an enjoyable read that is both enlightening and entertaining from start to finish. I thoroughly enjoyed the author’s narrative throughout.
I would highly recommend reading this book as it is an enjoyable read that is both enlightening and entertaining from start to finish. I thoroughly enjoyed the author’s narrative throughout.
September 2, 2024
Mark Shaiken’s book, "It’s What Makes Me . . . Me," is a fascinating and deeply personal exploration of life’s journey. The book stands out for its genuine and reflective nature, making it feel like a conversation with a wise friend who openly shares their most intimate thoughts. I was captivated by the author’s storytelling as he guides you through various stages of his life with honesty and a touch of humor.
His reflections on youth and aging are particularly striking, offering a raw and authentic perspective on the experiences that shape us. The humor woven into his introspections adds to the book’s appeal, making it both engaging and relatable. While it’s a memoir, it’s also about the universal experiences we all share.
Tbook invites readers to reflect on their own lives and find comfort in shared human experiences. It leaves a lasting impact, offering both comfort and insight into the complexities of the human experience.
His reflections on youth and aging are particularly striking, offering a raw and authentic perspective on the experiences that shape us. The humor woven into his introspections adds to the book’s appeal, making it both engaging and relatable. While it’s a memoir, it’s also about the universal experiences we all share.
Tbook invites readers to reflect on their own lives and find comfort in shared human experiences. It leaves a lasting impact, offering both comfort and insight into the complexities of the human experience.
September 10, 2024
Mark Shaiken’s book offers a unique and captivating perspective on life through a series of personal essays that I found truly interesting. The book is a thoughtful and amusing exploration of the author’s life. I was particularly drawn to Shaiken’s candid reflections on various aspects of his existence. His storytelling is engaging, and his ability to find humor in life’s challenges is refreshing and endearing, which I think is the book's strongest aspect. Shaiken’s essays skillfully blend personal narratives with universal themes, making them relatable to a wide audience. The way he intertwines personal anecdotes with broader life lessons provides a rich and rewarding reading experience. This memoir invites readers to reflect on their own lives while enjoying Shaiken’s humorous and thoughtful commentary.
I highly recommend it to every adult reader.
I highly recommend it to every adult reader.
August 11, 2024
Mark Shaiken’s It’s What Makes Me . . . Me is a refreshing dive into the human experience. With the candor of a seasoned storyteller and the introspection of a philosopher, Shaiken lays bare his soul for the world to see.
It’s a rollercoaster ride through the author’s life, filled with laughter, tears, and plenty of moments where you’ll find yourself nodding along in agreement. Shaiken doesn't shy away from the messy bits of life, and that honesty is both endearing and inspiring. He takes us on a journey through the peaks and valleys of existence, exploring themes of aging, relationships, and the search for meaning.
Whether you’re a long-time fan or a newcomer to Shaiken’s work, this book is a must-read. It’s a reminder that we’re all more alike than different, and that it’s okay to be exactly who we are.
It’s a rollercoaster ride through the author’s life, filled with laughter, tears, and plenty of moments where you’ll find yourself nodding along in agreement. Shaiken doesn't shy away from the messy bits of life, and that honesty is both endearing and inspiring. He takes us on a journey through the peaks and valleys of existence, exploring themes of aging, relationships, and the search for meaning.
Whether you’re a long-time fan or a newcomer to Shaiken’s work, this book is a must-read. It’s a reminder that we’re all more alike than different, and that it’s okay to be exactly who we are.
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