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Entrepreneurship Lifestyle Self Care Work

My current work-life “rules”

A lot of entrepreneurs go in for hustle culture, seemingly working 60-80-hour weeks, but I’ve been trying to create a sustainable practice. To help myself take time to rest and give myself a break from work, these are the guidelines I’ve developed for myself over the past year and a half.

  1. Check email once in the morning — after finishing breakfast — and once in the afternoon, on weekdays. On weekends, try to only look once. If I open email for 2FA or reference at night, try not to read anything, or at least not work-related messages.
  2. Never look at email in bed or at my reading nook; chiefly read it on desktop.
  3. Leave my desk and take a 30+ minute lunch break, by 2pm.
  4. Always stand up and leave my desk during the (3-5 minute) breaks in my co-working sessions.
  5. Do not respond to any work emails after 6pm.
  6. No consulting work after 6pm or on weekends.
  7. Close all work documents and software at the end of the day.
  8. Physically close my laptop at the end of the work day — even if I plan to use it for personal stuff later.
  9. Stop working on creative / personal projects by 10pm and get off the desktop.
  10. No fiction writing on the weekends, only blogging.
  11. Try to not think about work projects at night.
  12. Take all government holidays off work.

I’m pretty consistent about these except for stopping personal work at night on time 😉 I’m considering dropping the writing on weekends rule 🤔 I still haven’t figured out a good way to balance personal and paid work — I have a very hard time not putting paid work first — so I might add a rule there. I also haven’t figured out a system for taking longer breaks since they’re infrequent, but my minimum standard for myself is at least one full week off paid work a year, preferably two (the week around Christmas / New Year’s is usually dead, so planning another week in summer or early fall is ideal).

 

See also:

My Typical Day

Capitalism brain

Accepting the capacity gap

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Humor

Watched Scammers vs the Impossible Password Game

Watched Scammers vs Impossible Password Game from YouTube

I added “the password game” to my bank and tricked scammers into playing it for hours lol.

I gave up on the game at Rule 9 — I can’t believe how long they stuck it out 😂

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Featured Reflection

My Reading Philosophy in 17 Guidelines

I read a lot, and have many opinions about how and what I want to read. These guidelines reflect my current reading philosophy. I expect everyone has their own opinions about reading, so though my wording is authoritative, I’m speaking to myself here 😉

  1. Read according to whim. Read what I’m in the mood for, even if a different library book is due back to the library soon. Reading is for pleasure, so I should honor whatever I’m feeling. Library books can always be borrowed again.
  2. Treat my TBR as a stream to dip into, not a to-do list. I know I won’t get to all the books on my TBR. I’m not obligated to read everything I get from the library or buy. Always be curating an array of library books to give myself options.
  3. Read fiction in as few sittings as possible, but take my time reading nonfiction. Immersive storytelling benefits from few interruptions. Nonfiction benefits from reading only short amounts at once and reading multiple books at once. Always have at least two nonfiction books going.
  4. Quit nearly as many books as I finish. There are too many books out there to sink time into books I’m not enjoying. Read enough books that there’s less pressure on any given book to be fantastic. I want to gamble on new authors and different types of books — finishing every book I read probably means I’m not reading widely enough (and definitely not quitting enough).
  5. I owe a book nothing and can DNF it at any time. If I’m on the fence about a book I’m reading, try telling a friend about it. Really, just imagine telling a friend and then don’t bother because I’ll always realize I should quit it. Fridging is cause for an immediate DNF. If I put a novel down and don’t feel the urge to go back within a week, bail.
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Getting Shit Done Lifestyle

Living by rules

Liked The Imperfectionist: Rules to live by by Oliver Burkeman (ckarchive.com)

What’s the default approach? You get enthusiastic about some rule or set of rules, then try to impose them on your life – using them, in a telling phrase I keep encountering in the world of personal development these days, as a “forcing function”.

In other words, you take a bunch of concepts, give them pride of place in your mind, then demand that your thinking and behaviour start conforming to the concepts.

It causes you to evaluate your real life – the messy and imperfect one you’re actually living – against a perfect conceptual structure, in comparison with which it can only ever be found wanting.

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Meta Writing

Tricking your brain into writing the way you want

Bookmarked lowercase magic by Rob HardyRob Hardy (Ungated)

how ignoring the rules of capitalization catapulted me into the land of cathartic creativity

I’m all about using tricks to fool my brain — switching from computer to paper somehow unleashes a different kind of brainstorming that doesn’t work for me on the screen, sending a book draft to my Kindle helps me forget I wrote it so I can read more objectively. This guy’s switch to lowercase writing makes sense as a way to unlock vulnerability because it’s closer to the way we text and chat, which we often do with friends and family who we probably feel comfortable sharing more with and being ourselves. It’s a good reminder that switching our context and rules for ourselves can reveal ways we’re inadvertently keeping ourselves from our best work.

(I wonder how he’d feel about going back through and restoring capitalization after writing, or if the lowercase is part of the cue to the reader that this is something more personal.)

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Relationships Society

Geek Social Fallacies

Liked Five Geek Social Fallacies by Michael Suileabhain-Wilson (plausiblydeniable.com)

Social fallacies are particularly insidious because they tend to be exaggerated versions of notions that are themselves entirely reasonable and unobjectionable. It’s difficult to debunk the pathological fallacy without seeming to argue against its reasonable form; therefore, once it establishes itself, a social fallacy is extremely difficult to dislodge.

I have definitely encountered Geek Social Fallacies 1, 2 and 5:

  • Anyone who excludes someone is bad, even if the person excluded would make the activity or event worse
  • Friends don’t criticize anything about each other
  • Everyone must be included in everything