Robot Unicorn

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Robot Unicorn Podcast

Join me, Jess VanderWier, a registered psychotherapist, mom of three, and founder of Nurtured First, along with my husband Scott, as we dive deep into the stories of our friends, favourite celebrities, and influential figures. In each episode, we skip the small talk and dive into vulnerable and honest conversations about topics like cycle breaking, trauma, race, mental health, parenting, sex, religion, postpartum, healing, and loss. We are glad you are here. PS: The name Robot Unicorn comes from our daughter. When we asked her what we should name the podcast, she confidently came up with this name because she loves robots, and she loves unicorns, so why not? There was something about the playfulness of the name, the confidence in her voice, and the fact that it represents that you can love two things at once that just felt right.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    "As A Skeptic Husband, I Couldn't See The Value In Gentle Parenting." A Conversation With Our Friend

    In this episode, Jess and Scott sit down with their good friend Josh to discuss the changes he's made in his parenting style over the last six years. Josh candidly shares his experience raising his highly sensitive son. He talks about how a more traditional approach to discipline wasn't working and his original skepticism around gentle parenting. This episode is packed with insights for fathers (and parents in general) who might be struggling to find effective ways to discipline without resorting to punitive methods. Listeners will hear about: * Josh's initial resistance to "gentle parenting" and his transition into authoritative parenting. * The challenges of raising a highly sensitive child and learning how to support their emotional development. * How gentle parenting isn't permissive but focuses on teaching emotional regulation and healthy boundaries. * The emotional shift Josh experienced when he realized his traditional approaches weren't working, and how his openness to change improved his relationship with his son. * Practical tips for parents who feel unsure about how to manage big emotions and meltdowns. In the episode, Josh mentions a podcast episode that changed his parenting journey. Listen to Jess on the Gent's Talk podcast here [https://podcasts.apple.com/sa/podcast/your-past-experience-will-shape-your-parenting-approach/id1660149891?i=1000651810269].  Josh also mentions he owns his own landscaping business. You can find his info here [https://www.instagram.com/btnlandscapedesign?igsh=MXd5eHE2ZzZzbGd2NA%3D%3D]. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/]  Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    54 min

  2. 9 SEPT

    The #1 Reason Kids (And Adults) Cling, Whine and Act Out

    In this important episode, Jess and Scott dive deep into the root cause of challenging behaviours in both children and adults: separation. Jess explains how our core need for closeness drives many of our reactions, from clingy children to angry adults. Jess shares some eye-opening insights on: * Why behaviours like clinging, whining, and crying happen * Why kids are so angry all the time * Why common parenting strategies make behaviour worse * How separation emotions manifest as frantic pursuit, anger, and eventually apathy * Why "attention-seeking" behaviours are actually attempts to reconnect * The importance of allowing children (and ourselves) to feel sadness and shed tears * Real-life examples of helping children through separation struggles Listeners will gain a new perspective on behaviours they may have labelled as "defiance" or "acting out" and learn practical strategies for rebuilding closeness and connection. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Do you have a question you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email to podcast@robotunicorn.net and let us know. We'd love to hear from you! Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    33 min

  3. 2 SEPT

    Why Does Childhood Trauma Impact Your Parenting? with Dr. Cotler

    In this insightful episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Tanya Cotler joins Jess and Scott to explore the complexities of intergenerational trauma and cycle-breaking in parenting. Dr. Cotler shares her expertise on how childhood experiences shape our parenting, the importance of curiosity and compassion in understanding our triggers, and practical ways to build self-awareness and cope with parenting challenges. Listeners will gain valuable insights on: * How our bodies hold onto past traumas and how they can resurface in parenting * The concept of "repair mapping" to reflect on difficult parenting moments * Finding a balance between productivity and mindful pauses as a parent * Reframing children's challenging behaviours as opportunities for growth This deep and honest conversation offers both professional wisdom and personal examples to help parents navigate their own healing journeys while raising emotionally healthy children. It is a must-listen for anyone looking to break generational cycles and create more connected relationships with their kids. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    59 min

  4. 26 AUG

    "Why Does Mess Trigger Me So Much!?"

    In this revealing episode, Jess and Scott dive deep into why a messy house is a major trigger for Jess. They explore how their different upbringings shaped their attitudes towards cleanliness, with Jess craving order while Scott is more relaxed about clutter. Jess opens up about feeling overwhelmed by visual chaos and struggling to be present with her kids when the house is messy. They share practical strategies they've found helpful, like setting boundaries around eating spaces and getting rid of excess toys. Listeners will gain insight into managing their own triggers around household mess, communicating needs to partners, and finding a balance between cleanliness and embracing the chaos of family life. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/]  Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/]  Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    39 min

  5. 19 AUG

    The Daycare Debate: Does Sending A Child to Daycare Ruin Attachment?

    In this controversial episode, Jess and Scott dive into the heated debate around sending kids to daycare. They explore the "mommy wars" between stay-at-home and working parents - unpacking the guilt, judgement, and insecurities on both sides. Jess offers a nuanced perspective, explaining how quality childcare providers can be an important part of a family's "village" and how a strong parent-child attachment can be built whether a child is in childcare or at home. Listeners will gain insights on: * How to preserve attachment even when using childcare. * The importance of finding caregivers who truly connect with your child. * Ways to stay connected and present during the time you do have together. This balanced discussion aims to ease parents' guilt and encourage more compassion, reminding us we're all just trying to do our best for our kids. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    37 min

  6. 12 AUG

    Why Are Some Kids So Strong-Willed And Stubborn!?

    In this eye-opening episode, Jess delves deep into the concept of "strong-willed children" and challenges common assumptions about defiant behaviour. Listeners will gain fresh insights on: * Why the "strong-willed" label can be problematic and miss underlying needs. * How sensitivity, power dynamics, and leadership struggles contribute to defiance. * Practical strategies for addressing stubborn behaviour through curiosity and connection. * Ways to provide healthy control and meet children's needs for autonomy. * The importance of consistent, empathetic leadership as a parent. Whether you have a so-called "strong-willed child" or simply want to better understand challenging behaviour, this episode offers a compassionate new perspective and actionable tips to transform your relationship with your child. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    33 min

  7. 5 AUG

    "You Really Want to Talk About Sleep Training!?"

    In this episode, Jess and Scott dive deep into the challenges of infant and toddler sleep and parenting through sleep deprivation. Jess opens up about her struggles as a new mom trying to follow rigid sleep training rules and how she eventually found a more attuned, connection-based approach. In the episode, Jess and Scott discuss: * The pitfalls of strictly following sleep training methods without considering your child's unique needs. * How postpartum anxiety can fuel obsession over sleep schedules. * Mindset shifts that can help parents cope better with nighttime wakings. * Why attunement and trusting your parental instincts is so important. Listeners will gain valuable insights on finding a balance between sleep strategies and responding to their child's needs, as well as practical tips for staying calm during those long nights. This raw and honest conversation is a must-listen for any parent struggling with sleep issues. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    40 min

  8. 29 JUL

    "Why Are You Always So Defensive?"

    One of the most common questions Scott and Jess get about Robot Unicorn is: "Was your communication always this good? How did you learn to be less defensive and stop fighting in your relationship?" In this episode, Scott and Jess dive into their journey from high school sweethearts to happily married parents. They share valuable insights on: - How to move past defensiveness and truly listen to your partner - The importance of anticipating each other's needs - Why validating feelings isn't enough - you need to get curious - How to have difficult conversations without accusations or blame - Building a foundation of safety and trust in your relationship Listeners will gain practical tips for improving communication with their partner, even during challenging seasons of life. Scott and Jess's honest, unscripted conversation offers a relatable look at the work required to build a strong relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or long-time partners, this episode has the wisdom to help take your communication to the next level. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/]  Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]

    51 min
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Join me, Jess VanderWier, a registered psychotherapist, mom of three, and founder of Nurtured First, along with my husband Scott, as we dive deep into the stories of our friends, favourite celebrities, and influential figures. In each episode, we skip the small talk and dive into vulnerable and honest conversations about topics like cycle breaking, trauma, race, mental health, parenting, sex, religion, postpartum, healing, and loss. We are glad you are here. PS: The name Robot Unicorn comes from our daughter. When we asked her what we should name the podcast, she confidently came up with this name because she loves robots, and she loves unicorns, so why not? There was something about the playfulness of the name, the confidence in her voice, and the fact that it represents that you can love two things at once that just felt right.

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  • Creator
    Nurtured First
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    23
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Robot Unicorn
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