Lift Quotes

“If John Lennon was right that life is what happens when you're making other plans, parenthood is what happens when everything is flipped over and spilling everywhere and you can't find a towel or a sponge or your "inside" voice.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“This tug-of-war often obscures what's also happening between us. I am your mother, the first mile of your road. Me and all my obvious and hidden limitations. That means that in addition to possibly wrecking you, I have the chance to give to you what was given to me: a decent childhood, more good memories than bad, some values, a sense of tribe, a run at happiness. You can't imagine how seriously I take that - even as I fail you. Mothering you is the first thing of consequence that I have ever done.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“We're never ready for the things that happen. When the big stuff happens, we're always looking in the other direction.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“My default answer to everything is no. As soon as I hear the inflection of inquiry in your voice, the word no forms in my mind, sometimes accompanies by a reason, often not. Can I open the mail? No. Can I wear your necklace? No. When is dinner? No. What you probably wouldn't believe is how much I want to say yes. Yes, you can take two dozen books home from the library. Yes, you can eat the whole roll of SweeTarts. Yes, you can camp out on the deck. But the books will get lost, and SweeTarts will eventually make your tongue bleed, and if you sleep on the deck, the neighborhood racoons will nibble on you. I often wish I could come back to life as your uncle, so I could give you more. But, when you're the mom, your whole life is holding the rope against those wily secret agents who never, ever stop trying to get you to drop your end.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“Turbulence is the only way to get altitude – to get lift. Without turbulence the sky is just a big blue hole. Without turbulence, you sink.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“Do you know that I love you enough to take in the full reality of your lives? That I can understand the things you think I can't and I can see and know and embrace every bit of you, full frame, no cropping?”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“Mothering you is the first thing of consequence I have ever done.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“I am your mother. The first mile of your road. Me, and all of my obvious and hidden limitations. That means that in addition to possibly wrecking you, I have the chance to give you what was given to me. A decent childhood. More good memories than bad. Some values. A sense of tribe. A run at happiness.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“But the smell of the hospital, the sting of those overhead lights in the night, the snippets of conversations I had overheard, stayed with me and marked the beginning of how I came to know what a bold and dangerous thing parenthood is. Risk was not an event we had survived, but the place where we now lived.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“You fly from thermal to thermal looking for lift.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“But when you're the mom, your whole life is holding the rope against these wily secret agents who never, ever stop trying to get you to drop your end.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“(Motherhood) I want her to have this thing I have that's so ordinary and tedious and aggravating, and then, so divine.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“Turbulence is the only way to get altitude, to get lift. Without turbulence, the sky is just a big blue hole. Without turbulence, you sink.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift

“I’ve had cancer twice and if I had to pick one fate for you, cancer or fertility problems, I’d pick cancer.”
― Kelly Corrigan, Lift