Linda Babcock
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“even when women can imagine changes that might increase their productivity at work, their happiness at home, or their overall contentment with their lives, their suppressed sense of entitlement creates real barriers to their asking. Because they’re not dissatisfied with what they have and not sure they deserve more, women often settle for less.”
― Women Don't Ask: Negotiation and the Gender Divide
― Women Don't Ask: Negotiation and the Gender Divide
“Choose something big that you think it’s really not okay to want, something you think would make you seem greedy or selfish if you asked for it. And make sure it’s something you really do want. Then ask for it. Whether you get it or not, fight your impulse to apologize or feel bad. Tell yourself it’s okay to want what you want. Combat the impulse to scale back out of fear that you’re overreaching.”
― Ask For It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want
― Ask For It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want
“In the middle of a negotiation, what they planned to ask for suddenly seems ridiculous, excessive, too much. If this happens to you, hold on tight to the information you’ve collected, and don’t suddenly revise your goals downward. Focus on your target and fight the impulse to concede too quickly. After all your hard work, don’t make the mistake of walking away too soon.”
― Ask For It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want
― Ask For It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want
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