You Sound Like a White Girl Quotes

“I am Mexican, and I am proud of it. I am also American, and that’s not a separate identity from my Mexican one. I don’t live between cultures. I am both cultures. I carry all of it in this gorgeous brown body. No matter how hard this country has tried to get rid of us, we are still here, flourishing. My hope is in us. In me. In you.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Many intellectuals argue that race is a social construct, meaning that we, as a society, give it meaning. Race doesn’t tell us about society—society tells us about race. Society has already made it clear that Latinos are seen as a race—we experience discrimination because we are seen as racially different. If the definitions of race and ethnicity are constructed and deconstructed by those in power, why can’t we reframe Latino as a race to better understand where we fit in America’s racial framework? Isn’t Latino a mixed race, even by the way we currently define race? Race is not biological. It is political and personal. To have a Latino race is not to say we are all the same but that we are organizing ourselves politically, to be counted accurately, to garner political power for the benefit of our entire community. To not be erased.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“The lie of whiteness that distorts the history of our country to cast white people as the saviors and everyone else as invaders.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“It was ironic, really, that the only reason I became eligible to adjust my status was because I married a U.S. citizen. I laugh when I think about the many times my mom told me, 'You have to be independent. You have to make your own money. Don't depend on a man!' I did. I made my own money. But I still needed a man to save me from my illegality.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“I learned the language, at the expense of my Spanish, only to find that in English I didn't exist. I read the American history textbooks in school that erased any trace of the deep Mexican roots in this country. Still, I forged ahead.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Our youth experience higher rates of depression than their white peers because of this endless race for belonging.25 We are getting sick, because we internalize the idea that assimilation will make us part of America. But no matter what we do, we are still stereotyped as lazy criminals who bring drugs and who rape white women. We are treated as foreign invaders who must be met with handcuffs and bullets. It does not matter how many Mexicans or Latinos there are in the United States, our place in America will never be secure if we keep seeking acceptance on the basis of whiteness.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“The legacy of unions that kept African Americans, Latinos, Chinese, and others out of factory work—redlining, exclusionary immigration policies, the looting of Mexicans' land during the Mexican-American War, deportations of Mexicans during economic downturns—all created a gap that we are still trying to close. In a country where Black Americans have been viewed as 'biologically inferior,' Mexicans as 'an ignorant "hybrid race,"' and Chinese immigrants as the 'ideal human mule,' there is far from a fair chance to access the same economic opportunities as white people.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“We are finally seeing that success doesn't have to happen outside our community or in spite of our heritage. We are rejecting the notion that success is found in whiteness because that kind of thinking has never led us anywhere good. The antidote for the poison of the oppressor is to embrace our brownness, because it is our culture that is propelling us.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“We learn that the United States is the pinnacle of democracy in the world, but how can freedom be made perfect when it was built upon the genocide of Indigenous people, the enslavement of Black people, and the colonization of Mexicans?”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“We live in a country where there are more than 60 million Latinos, making up almost a fifth of the American population. But we aren't the ones narrating our own story; rather we became subjects at the mercy of someone else finding us worthy of taking up space in the world. Until our history, struggles, and unique experiences are unearthed, the whole country will suffer because the American story will remain incomplete. It's incredible what our people have survived in this country, and how little Americans of all races, ethnicities, and backgrounds know about it. When our rich past is kept from us, it leaves people to believe that we belong somewhere else—outside this country. Without an accurate telling of our history, we cannot fully address problems that are rooted in the past. When we are viewed as foreigners, our issues become someone else's problems—not America's problems.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Reclaiming our identity is about addressing the battles within our community. About undoing and redoing. It is to stand in the middle of the storm, wet and naked, and to emerge in the sun clothed with a new vision for our future.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“...my racial identity is a concept that escapes intellectual conversations about race. My personal experiences contradict the idea that Latino is only an ethnicity and not a race. But suggesting that Latino should be a race confounds the situation even more, because we are all so different and experience the world differently, though the same could be said of any other racial group.

When others state, 'Latino is not a race, it's an ethnicity,' they ignore that not all Latinos have the same ethnicity, either. And though we don't all share the same ethnicity, the exact language, religion, customs, culture, food, and so forth, and though we are not the only ethnic group in America, we are the only people who are singled out by our ethnicity.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“We cannot make ourselves or allow others to make us small so we can fit in the minds and hearts of white people. America might never love us back, so we must love ourselves.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“If you spend enough time around your Mexican family, you’ve undoubtedly heard someone brag about their “abuelito de ojos azules.” We want so badly to be white that some of us will claim our mother’s grandpa was from Spain, even if he wasn’t. Even if by doing so, we are belittling ourselves.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“I love us. I believe in us. We don’t need the kindness of the white gaze to celebrate ourselves. We don’t need our stories to be translated so white people can see us as human. They are not our saviors. We are.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Many of us understand that America was built on the brutality of slavery and the looting of Indigenous land. Fewer recognize the colonization of Mexico by the United States as a third pillar in the creation of present-day America. The first colonization of Mexico was of course by Spain. But the second colonization of my people came at the hands of the United States during the Mexican-American War. In school we learn of it as Manifest Destiny, as the God-given right of white people to steal native land. The result was not only the taking of land...but the reluctant acquisition of Mexicans.
...The annexation of Texas into the United States and a dispute over where the Texas border should be drawn gave President James Polk an excuse to loot more Mexican land...There were between 80,000 and 100,000 Mexicans living in the land stolen by the United States. Polk wanted the land, but not the Mexicans on it. They were never immigrants; they didn't come to the United States or cross the border; the border crossed them. After the war, the Mexico-U.S. border was carefully drawn to keep as many Mexicans out as possible, a purpose it still serves. But the border never stopped out roots from growing on both sides.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“I didn’t find freedom in assimilation because there is no freedom in racist ideas.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Today the media continues to paint immigrants of color as leeches sucking resources out of the United States, all while accusing us of stealing American jobs. How can we be both lazy low-skilled people and job-snatching thieves?”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“I don’t live between cultures. I am both cultures. I carry all of it in this gorgeous brown body.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Why don't you speak English? Why don't you speak Spanish? Being Latino in America means the answer to both of these questions holds us to an impossible standard to prove we're both sufficiently American and authentically Latino. I am tired of the interrogation, the unattainableness, the in-betweenness. I am enough to stand on both sides, fully and completely.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“White supremacy is persistent, but so are we.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“...Mexicans threw a wrench in the racial dynamics of America, and in turn, our place in the United States has been precarious ever since, because we became citizens at a time when only white people could become citizens, even though most of us were not white.
...The United States wasn't happy about giving citizenship to Mexicans. After all, Mexicans were viewed as racially inferior, primitive creatures who were ignorant and knew nothing of laws. New York Times articles from the 1870s and 1880s not how the 'Lazy Mexicans' were 'retarding progress.' We were described as 'the personification of tramphood' on the front page of the Times. Another racist piece stated, 'Greasers as citizens. What Sort of State New Mexico Would Make.' Our 'origin and character,' our 'hatred of Americans,' and our 'dense ignorance' made us 'totally unfit for American citizenship.' We were an undesirable compromise for manifesting a white destiny in the West.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“How American to place the value of a job above that of Black lives.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“These nativists—these racists—imagine a U.S. utopia of white people that has never existed. We've been here. Mexicans, and more broadly Latinos, have have never invaded Texas. Our land was stolen, and now we're the ones who are viewed as thieves. White supremacy doesn't care if we are here legally, or if we were born here, or if our families have roots in America dating back centuries, perhaps even longer than theirs. The fear many white people have is not whether we will assimilate, but whether our Latino bodies, and those of our children, will roam this land.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Many historians have studied the complexities of how European immigrants became American, but it's hard to ignore what they all had in common that other groups of immigrants did not—their white skin. European immigrants assimilated and gained power because whiteness was available to them. That's what made them American. That's what made grandiose myths. This country many times uses them as a shiny example of what immigrants should be, as a backdrop of everything we are not. But white became white by excluding others.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Some people say that I am ungrateful because this country has given me so much, and that I should simply ride into the sunset with the bounty it has bestowed upon me. The truth is, I do have a lot, but I finally know how much it has cost me. In order to love America fully, I had to stop being enamored with it.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“Reclaiming my identity has been a painful birthing process. Something beautiful has been born, but not without blood and tears. The Latino identity is complex...even the very words we use to describe our community cause controversy. How we are counted in official forms like the census have created unintended consequences, or maybe it's by design that we are treated as America's bastard child, as perpetual foreigners no matter how many generations ago we became American.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“I've learned that Mexicans, our Indigenous ancestors, have always had a footprint in this land. We have many examples to follow of people who resisted assimilation, who fought for equality. We must shine a light on those who came before us, those who showed us decades ago that we are enough. Through them, I have learned this is where I belong, not because white people accept me, but because the same roots that ground me to Mexico ground me here, too.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“...lies...drive immigrants, and people of color...to change who we are in order to make us palatable, or at least tolerable, to white America. I didn't find freedom in assimilation because there is no freedom in racist ideas. Assimilation requires that the story we tell about the United States and about white people is an uplifting, inspiring, sugarcoated version of the facts, in which the whip, guns, and racist motives must remain hidden. But it was the truth about this country, the knowledge of its ugly dirty secrets, that set me free.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation

“When you are someone like me, you can't get to the top without bending the rules because the rules are meant to keep you at the bottom.”
― Julissa Arce, You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation